1. Seek Each Other's Happiness.—A selfish marriage that seeks only its own happiness defeats itself. Happiness is a fire that will not burn long on one stick.
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2. Do Not Marry Suddenly.—It can always be done till it is done, if it is a proper thing to do.
3. Marry in Your Own Grade in Society.—It is painful to be always apologizing for any one. It is more painful to be apologized for.
4. Do Not Marry Downward.—It is hard enough to advance in the quality of life without being loaded with clay heavier than your own. It will be sufficiently difficult to keep your children up to your best level without having to correct a bias in their blood.
5. Do Not Sell Yourself.—It matters not whether the price be money or position.
6. Do Not Throw Yourself Away.—You will not receive too much, even if you are paid full price.